I found Steve in ICU last night looking pretty much himself (actually very good for what he'd been through) and watching a football game. He seemed to be very alert - although he dozed off and on - but was having some serious pain. He laid on that magic button (self-medicating) pretty hard and I remarked that I wish I had something like that when I watched the Jets play! We didn't see the doctor last night so I don't have much more medical information. The nurse said his blood pressure was very good and other vitals were strong.
We held hands and watched the game and nattered on about nothing. At one point, Steve said he was trying to decide which of his nurses he wanted to give him a sponge bath!
We didn't talk more about the colostomy - I stayed away from that subject as much as I can until we have some more medical expertise around to answer the many questions we will both have.
I spent some time this morning researching more about life after colostomy and Joe McDonald sent me some other web sites with info. There's a lot of evidence that really life can be pretty normal with some changes and dietary limitations. The emotional changes, however, will be the biggest hurdle. We are lucky to have so many friends and such strong support to help us through that.
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Dear Laura and Steve,
I knew Steve would come through the surgery and survive. The colostomy is unfortunate (to say the least) but it's WAY better than the alternative! I'm sure that modern technology has made it easier to live with too.
I would like to know which hospital Steve is in and for how long. Lee and I want to send him something to help him while away the hours once he feels a little better.
If you'd rather we wait until he gets home, just let me know.
Stay strong, both of you, and know that Lee and I are pulling for you and sending good and positive thoughts your way all the time!
Love,
Michele & Lee
I didn't mean to be anonymous....
Dear Laura and Steve...wait a minute, this is like deja vu all over again. Steve, you and Chuck can share your ostomoy stories!! I just know that with your outlook, your support team led by MS.L, and all your friends and family, you will look upon this journey and have learned much.
More importantly you will understand how much you are loved, cared for and prayed for. That my friend is the good stuff. Both Chuck and I send our prayers and good vibes for your recovery. That stuff really helps.
Laura, that glass of wine we need to share is now mandatory. Give me a shout when you can.
Fond wishes, prayers and thoughts to you both.
Your FastFrame Buddy!!
Nancy
Laura and Steve: Thanks for posting the updates. Many of us are here thinking about you and wanting to do whatever we can to make this time easier for you. Stay strong and know you have many, many friends right here with you.
Susan
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